Facing Fear: How Therapy Can Help You Move from Stuck to Empowered
- lourdes Ibarra
- May 16
- 2 min read
Fear is a natural part of being human. It protects us from danger, signals caution, and helps us survive. But when fear begins to take over—shaping our decisions, relationships, and daily lives—it can become paralyzing. Many people find themselves feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward.
At Creating Meaning Counseling, I help individuals and couples navigate through fear with compassion, curiosity, and proven therapeutic tools. Whether your fears stem from past trauma, anxiety, relationship wounds, or life transitions, therapy can provide a safe space to unpack what you’re carrying and start moving toward growth.
The Many Faces of Fear
Fear doesn’t always look like panic. It can show up as:
Avoiding certain situations or conversations
Trouble making decisions or trusting others
Physical symptoms like tension, fatigue, or difficulty sleeping
Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected
Constant self-doubt or needing control
These reactions are often rooted in deeper emotional pain or past experiences. Therapy helps you explore where these fears come from and how they’re affecting your present.
How I Help You Work Through Fear
In my practice, I use a trauma-informed, compassionate approach to meet you where you are. Some of the evidence-based methods I incorporate include:
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing): A powerful tool for helping clients heal from trauma and reduce fear-based responses.
Mindfulness Techniques: To help you become more grounded and less overwhelmed by anxious thoughts.
CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy): To reframe the negative thought patterns that fuel fear.
Attachment and Emotion-Focused Work: Particularly helpful in couples therapy, where fear often shows up as defensiveness or distance.
I work with individuals ages 13 and older as well as couples, both online through Creating Meaning Counseling (self-pay) and insurance accepted. Regardless of where you are in your journey, we’ll work together to create a space where fear no longer leads the way.
You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck
You are not alone in your fears, and you don’t have to face them without support. Therapy isn’t about “fixing” you—it’s about helping you reconnect with your strength, your clarity, and your inner wisdom.
If you’re ready to take the next step toward healing, I invite you to reach out. You can book an appointment through my website or call me directly at 520-247-4313. Together, we can begin turning fear into fuel for growth.
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